The driving force behind making Mother’s Day an official observance was Anna Jarvis. It wasn’t solely her idea; her mother and other women long pushed for some kind of maternal appreciation observance.
Jarvis organized the first official Mother’s Day celebration in 1908. It was a success and she decided she wanted an official day of reckoning for mothers, since pretty much all American holidays were dedicated toward celebrating male achievements.
In 1914, U.S. President Woodrow Wilson made it official: the second Sunday in May would be observed as Mother’s Day. By the end of the decade Jarvis thought the holiday already had gotten too commercial and urged people to lay off the consumerism.
A century later we’re still celebrating Mother’s Day with flowers, candy, candles, restaurant meals, and phone calls.
And like Jarvis’s belief that women got short shrift in recognition, researchers long overlooked how women were affected by substance use and dependence. That began to change in the early 1990s when federal funding dictated that research focus on women as well.
Men still are more prone to addiction, but women have been catching up, as drinking has become more socially acceptable for the fairer sex in recent decades.
While women may be able to do the same amount of work on that job (and beyond) that their male counterparts can do, how women are affected by alcohol and drugs is not quite so equal. Drinking hits women harder, for starters:
- Women tend to weigh less than men. They also have a slightly higher percentage of body fat, and fat holds onto alcohol more tenaciously, so the hard (and not-so-hard) stuff hits women harder.
- Women tend to suffer the unhealthy effects of alcohol more quickly, too, including developing a dependence.
- Women can’t as readily break alcohol down in the stomach and liver, so more alcohol hits the bloodstream.
- Women are more prone to depression and anxiety, putting them at greater risk for co-occurring disorders that occur when people struggle with substance abuse and mental illness.
- If a woman is trying to conceive, too much alcohol can meddle with menstrual cycles and interfere with fertility.
Whether you’re a mother or not, make sure you take the time for yourself to find help if substance abuse is taking up space in your life.
history.com – Mother’s Day 2020
nationalgeographic.com – 7 Things You Don’t Know About Mother’s Day
health.harvard.edu – Addiction in Women
nimh.nih.gov – Women and Mental Health
sunshinebehavioralhealth.com – Co-Occurring Disorders & Addiction: Examining the Not-So-Hidden Links
cdc.gov – Excessive Alcohol Use and Risks to Women’s Health
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